From: Parent E-News [parents@memphis.edu]
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University of Memphis

Parent E-News

December 9, 2005

Reminder:  You can click on the links below to go directly to the topics listed

IMPORTANT DATES

COLLEGE/DEPARTMENT OF THE MONTH

TIGER PRIDE

FINAL EXAMS

SEMESTER GRADES

SPRING 2006 REGISTRATION

FINANCIAL AID

RESIDENCE LIFE

STUDENT HEALTH SERVICES

BURSAR

COMPUTER SUPPORT SERVICES

TIPS FOR PARENTS

TIGER ATHLETICS

IMPORTANT DATES

December 9-15, Friday-Thursday, Exams

December 16, Friday, Residence Halls close

December 17, Saturday, Commencement, 9:30 am, FedEx Forum http://saweb.memphis.edu/commencement/

January 13, 2006, Friday, Residence Hall check-in begins

January 17, Tuesday, Spring Classes Start

March 7-13, Monday-Sunday, Spring Break

For a more dates, please view either the

Academic Calendar

www.enrollment.memphis.edu/registrar/calendars/academic/ay0506.htm

or the University Event Calendar

http://events.memphis.edu 

(best if viewed using Explorer)

COLLEGE/DEPARTMENT OF THE MONTH

COLLEGE OF ARTS AND SCIENCES

Check out The College of Arts and Sciences website at http://cas.memphis.edu

TIGER PRIDE

All academic buildings on the main U of M campus have wireless Internet access.

FINAL EXAMS

The last regular class meeting for Fall 2005 is Wednesday, December 7. The Final Exams period begins Friday, December 9 and ends December 15.  For a detailed schedule of exam dates and times, see the Fall 2005 Final Exams Schedule.

SEMESTER GRADES

STUDENTS AND GRADES

Grades are available on TIGERWEB as soon as instructors enter them. However, Fall 2005 grades and related academic statistics are not “official” until December 22, the Thursday following the session’s last exam date. Your student should recheck his/her grades, statistics, and academic action after that day.

Grades are not routinely mailed out. If your student needs a printed grade report (for example, to send to an employer), the he or she needs to request a grade mailer; this can be done in 2 ways:

NOTE: Grade Mailers may be requested only for the University term that has just ended, are available only for a few weeks after grades are official, and are sent by U.S. Mail to the student’s Permanent Address.

PARENTS AND GRADES

“Can I see my student’s grades?” No, not unless you have your student's consent or you can show that the student is still a dependent for federal income tax purposes.
This may seem strange to you, but federal law prevents us from releasing a student's information to anyone but the student unless we have the student's written consent. The specific law is the Family Educational Right to Privacy Act (FERPA), also known as the Buckley Amendment.
We recommend that you follow this procedure and that you talk to your student at every stage:

SPRING 2006 REGISTRATION

Registration for the Spring 2006 semester opened November 14, 2005 and will run through January 13, 2006. 

Students should review their schedules immediately after registering and again just before the first day of classes: class building and room assignments are sometimes changed at the last minute.

STUDENT FINANCIAL AID OFFICE

RESIDENCE LIFE AND DINING SERVICES INFORMATION

FALL 2005 CLOSING

RENT PAYMENT FOR SPRING 2006

SPRING 2006 CHECK-IN DATES

Friday, January 13, 2006 or Saturday, January 14, 2006

1 PM – 4:30 PM

SPRING 2006 ROOM CHANGE

Thursday, January 19 or Friday, January 20

STUDENT HEALTH SERVICES

Student Health Service’s Health Education area has had a very productive semester. Programs have been presented across campus including: the Student Health Fair and Heart Health during September, Breast and Testicular Cancer Self-exam training, Health and Wellness classes for ACAD 1100 classes, the Fatal Vision Goggle Obstacle Course during the National Collegiate Alcohol and Alcoholism Awareness Week in October, Influenza and Meningitis Awareness and Diabetes Awareness in early November. Mr. Butts toured campus and urged smokers to join various free smoking cessation groups in the area; carbon dioxide testing was done to demonstrate the increased level of CO2 in smoker’s blood for the Great American Smokeout. On December 1, we participated with NAACP in an awareness fair for World AIDS Day. Our last function of the year will include a Stress Relief activity and Safety program. Our Peer Health Educator’s group has grown and helped with many of these activities!  For more information about Student Health Services, visit their website at www.people.memphis.edu/~health/

BURSAR

COMPUTER SUPPORT SERVICES

Are you interested in purchasing a computer for your student for Christmas?  Click on the link below for recommendations from the Internet Technology Division at the University of Memphis http://support.memphis.edu/standards/students.php

TIPS FOR PARENTS OF FIRST SEMESTER FRESHMEN

Parents: What you can do to help your son or daughter adjust to being a first semester freshman at the University of Memphis?

Listen – The transition from high school for most students will include interactions with new friends and acquaintances, faculty, staff, and advisors.  However, don’t be surprised when they turn to you for support and encouragement.  It is important that you do not rush to judgment and giving quick solutions.  Besides when you tell them what to do, more than likely, they will say “I already tried that” or “You just don’t understand”.  Surprisingly, they are very likely close to finding a solution.  You could listen, provide support, and say something like, “What do you think you should do?” or “Let me know what you decide.”

Keep in touch - Your child will be very busy adjusting to college life. Challenging classes, making new friends, football games (GO TIGERS!), student organizations, and other activities will consume a lot of time on their schedule. You may have to arrange a regular time that your child phones home. Even while they are in college, there is still no place like home.

Expect Change – Most students undergo significant change after going to college.  Change is often rapid and evident the first time they come home for a visit or it may take place more slowly over their college career. Regardless, change is inevitable and normal.  However, going through this kind of change in college will sometimes make it difficult for students to cope with major changes at home.  So, don’t change their bedroom into a guest room or new exercise room right away.  Discuss major changes with your student when they come home for a visit.

Maintain Trust - Being away from home for the first time, many new college students are always excited about the freedom they have now. However, with freedom comes responsibility. Allow your son or daughter to learning from their mistakes. If your son or daughter sounds very different or somewhat sad, ask them if they are having difficulty.  If it is too overwhelming for them, encourage them to talk to a counselor. Hopefully, you can have confidence and trust them to make wise decisions concerning the many things they will be involved in.

Stay Informed – Knowing what’s going on campus will prove to be a benefit to you and your student. Knowing when breaks are coming around is important, but knowing when mid-terms and finals start allows you to be an important support and resource.  Besides this information may even explained why your students sounded stressed last time you spoke.  There are many ways to know what’s going on.  The University maintains an online calendar of events, academic calendars, the Daily Helmsman (the campus newspaper) and the UofM homepage.

Don’t Panic When They Panic – If your son or daughter panics stay calm. If they are failing, encourage them to seek educational assistance. If they say they are unsatisfied with their major or course choices, encourage them to seek career counseling.  If they say they are depressed or anxious, encourage them to seek psychological counseling.

Know Where To Turn If There Are Difficulties – If your son or daughter tells you “I’m not going to class” or if the begin to sleep constantly and withdraw, encourage them to seek counseling. Remember the Center for Counseling, Learning and Testing is a resource available to students who might need assistance with career, personal, or academic issues. Of course there are other offices on campus with staff available to assist students with concerns they may have. Contact us advise and direction that have to do with counseling (901-687-2068), learning (901-678-2704) and testing (901-678-2428) issues.

 TIGER ATHLETICS

How about those Tigers?!

Motor City Bowl, December 26,  3pm Central time
http://www.memphis.edu/alumni/bowl.html

And upcoming basketball games for the #7 Men's Tigers:

Sat 12/10/05 Providence Providence, R.I.   6:30pm
Sat 12/17/05 Mississippi Oxford, Miss. FSN South 2:30pm
Tue 12/20/05 Louisiana Tech Memphis, Tenn. WLMT 7:00 pm
Tue 12/27/05 Gonzaga Memphis, Tenn. ESPN2 6:00 pm
Fri 12/30/05 Purdue Memphis, Tenn. WLMT 7:00 pm
Mon 01/02/06 Texas Memphis, Tenn. ESPN 1:30 pm
Wed 01/04/06 Middle Tennessee State Memphis, Tenn. WLMT 7:00 pm
Sun 01/08/06 Winthrop Memphis, Tenn. WLMT 1:00 pm
Wed 01/11/06 East Carolina Greenville, N.C. CSTV/WLMT 6:00 pm
Sat 01/14/06 SMU Memphis, Tenn. WLMT 7:00 pm
Wed 01/18/06 Tennessee Memphis, Tenn. CSTV/WLMT 7:00 pm
Sat 01/21/06 Southern Mississippi Hattiesburg, Miss. WLMT 4:00 pm


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